I don’t have any such games, but I know that Stardew Valley is a game that’s pretty divisive with regards to how cozy it is. The vibes the graphics and music give off are cozy, but I know that for some the gameplay can be stressful even if they consciously try not to minmax.
I don’t feel like I’m competing but boy do I go hard when someone’s shop has something that I don’t have yet. NO you can’t disconnect the session yet. I’m still buying your pink elephant shovels and every pair of socks in your shop!!!
My island is a mess. I’m a collector not a designer ¯\_(ツ)_/¯