Inese Briede says her sister, Inga Rublite, 39, might not have died ‘if someone was just checking up on her’’

  • Adam@doomscroll.n8e.dev
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    5 months ago

    Fuck.

    My wife and I were in this A&E 3 days later. She’d new lower body numbness appear some months into a broken back recovery. 101 said go straight there, this is a no fuck around situation.

    We get there and are advised it’s a 12 hour wait, the place is rammed, ambulances are queuing and the corridors are full of gurneys and paramedics.

    My wife at this point is in tears. The broken back means sitting for an hour on a shit waiting room chair is hard work. 12 literally can’t happen.

    So we leave. What else can we do.

    The situation was fucking awful, but I don’t blame the staff. I felt genuinely bad for all of them - there was just a complete lack of hope on any of their faces.

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        Long story short the MRI showed no impinging of the cord so we were told to just monitor it. It’s slowly fading.

        The long story is that the next day the GP repeated 111’s advice so we bundled up pillows and painkillers and, still very upset, we went back. After an hour the triage nurse told us that all the GP needed to do was a referral by email and we would have been admitted straight to the spinal unit.

        She then rang the GP and actually tore them a new one. It was highly satisfying.

        We spent the rest of the day in spinal, her on a bed, and got seen by excellent staff who did more explaining about the injury and what to expect than anyone else had done to that point. We were in limbo about the whole thing till then.

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    5 months ago

    Utterly heartbreaking read, my sincerest condolences to her sister and family. Made all the more heartbreaking by the fact that these stories seem to be getting more and more common.

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    I’d love to know where she was. If she was just in the waiting room surely they’d see her?

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      Rublite died after being found unconscious under her coat in an A&E waiting room more than eight hours after arriving.

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        Not what I meant, like was she in the toilet, hidden in some way, etc. This is discussed in the article that they won’t give specifics to her sister or let her see the footage.

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    At what do you guys start mass protesting for better healthcare? Hell, America is better, because expensive healthcare is better tha none.

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      Because the British people that vote, vote primarily for parties that are seeking to destroy the NHS, because they’ve been trained to believe it exists entirely to employ and treat Them. The Others. Their Kind. You know The Ones.

    • HubertManne@kbin.social
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      Yeah better none for some based on money than none for some randomly. Oh but us also has the randomly shit.

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        American doctors will treat you regardless of ability to pay. Theyll just hurt your credit score afterwards

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          nope. that is a fallacy. if you will literally die in the short term an emergency room will treat you. otherwise who knows. Just had an ENT not take us because we would not put down a credit card. This is after growths were found in the sinuses.