LadyButterfly she/her
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LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneto
Casual Conversation@piefed.social•Do westerners have a "shame culture" like my family does?English
3·1 day agoThis really isn’t nice at all. In the UK, some communities are plain speaking to the point that it sounds awful to other people, but what you’ve described would be abusive anywhere here.
I’m a domestic abuse outreach worker and warning signs for domestic abuse perps as per DA expert Lundy Bancroft are a good way of telling if someone has an abusive personality. They include:
Jealousy/possessiveness, Jekyll and Hyde, selfish, doesn’t accept they’re wrong, unrealistic expectations, double standards, relationship moves fast, substance misuse, speaks disrespectfully about exes, pressures for sex, intimidates when angry.
What’s your feeling?
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Casual Conversation@piefed.social•Cheerful Tuesday... what's made you laugh or smile recently?English
2·1 day agoThere’s a man in the office I work in who is lovely, a really nice man. We don’t have a lot to say to each other, but he obviously genuinely likes and values me. It’s really nice
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Casual Conversation@piefed.social•Cheerful Tuesday... what's made you laugh or smile recently?English
2·1 day agoNice work! I’m in awe of your DIY skills
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Casual Conversation@piefed.social•What did you think about bad bunny's performance at the superpower?English
6·1 day agoHe spoke Spanish. And obviously there are almost no Spanish speakers in America, and never have been. So therefore its not American
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Casual Conversation@piefed.social•What did you think about bad bunny's performance at the superpower?English
4·1 day agoImmediate positive. Anything that pisses him off makes me a happy butterfly
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WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•What's one thing you've stopped tolerating, and how much difference has not tolerating it made?English
21·1 day agoI no longer tolerate shitty friends. Gonna treat me badly? We’re done. It’s helped cos I’ve found fewer quality friends are much better than more shit ones
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WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Monday motivation... what are you going to get sorted this week?English
6·2 days agoContinuing with job hunting, which will likely be my answer every monday for 6 to 12 months
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Dogs@lemmy.world•I think all pet lovers can relateEnglish
11·2 days agoMODERATORS!!!
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Dogs@lemmy.world•I think all pet lovers can relateEnglish
3·2 days agoOh hey champ!
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Dogs@lemmy.world•I think all pet lovers can relateEnglish
7·2 days agoThat’s an elegant doggo
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Biscuits@feddit.uk•Oh this is GLORIOUSEnglish
10·2 days agoI approve
Oh good I’m glad
Ooooh not heard of that one thanks
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History Memes@piefed.social•I should get oneEnglish
3·4 days agoAtreeeyyyuuuuu
That beautiful skyline destroyed it is devastating and tragic 😥
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WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Do you agree?English
3·5 days agoGod omega I’m so sorry I should have thought, I’ll delete it. Hope you’re pk
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WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Funtime Friday... love it or loathe it!English
4·5 days agoI love cats but I loathe the cat hair everywhere
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WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•What's your favourite sweet treat?English
5·6 days agoChocolate! Absolutely fucking love it
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WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Creative Wednesday... how have you been creative recently?English
4·7 days agoI’m writing loads of applications for new jobs. I’ve not done this for nearly 20 years so holy shit am I ever out of practice! Fuck I’ve had to get creative working out wtf they want me to say and saying it in the right word count and format













!dadforaminute@lemmy.world are great for anyone that needs a parental perspective, pep talk, or even just practical advice about DIY. Really recommend them it’s a fantastic group of people