• idiomaddict@feddit.de
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    Disrespecting your partners and only seeing what they can do for you is not fixed by polyamory

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      Yeah it just makes the consequences of your poor relationship habits much worse

      I’m poly and I still have to ensure someone is attractive to me and make sure I have good interpersonal connections with them before dating. Beyond the empathy aspects it’s just a disaster to have a girlfriend you love and a girlfriend you’re more attracted to. That’s like intentionally inducing jealousy

    • morphballganon@lemmy.world
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      I was referring to the problem of having to choose, not the problem of the guy being a fragile douche