• JackbyDev@programming.dev
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      27 days ago

      I literally did. I don’t see why you’d believe people have to mournful about an amicable divorce or why that would be narcissistic otherwise.

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        27 days ago

        They said “tossing away relationships like this is narcissistic” not “amicable divorce is bad”.

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            27 days ago

            The way this relationship is ending is throwing away a relationship. The divorce method is irrellevant.

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              26 days ago

              The author specifically stated they’re still close friends. So they’re still in a relationship. Again, how is this narcissistic?

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          27 days ago

          I’m still confused here, what’s the difference?

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            27 days ago

            The difference is having a relationship with the strength of a wet noodle and celebrating it.