“Nonviolent Communication” by Marshall Rosenberg.
The lessons for communication and non-reactivity will pay dividends in every aspect of your interpersonal relations. Work, friendships, romantic relationships, even dealing with customer disservice.
How to keep house while drowning by KC Davis: how it’s not morally wrong to have a messy living space, and how to keep it livable even when you feel like you’re overwhelmed.
I have ADHD and depression, this book was pivotal in helping me get out of the stereotypical “depression apartment” situation.
Her Tiktok is also entertaining. If not a bit preachy at times.
The Tao of Pooh. If you are someone who has trouble taking a deep breath and being in the moment, slowing things down, this can be a helpful read. That and Zen And The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance helped me.
Time to read Zen again.
Hacking: The Art of Exploitation 978-1593271442
This book helps teach you programming and understanding systems at a low level. While trying to be entertaining and provides a liveCD to experiment with.
First thing I’d ever seen on the darknet was this bad boy. (Not that it was a terribly efficient way to get an epub.)
Such a bottom-up book. Almost gave up back then, thinking I wouldn’t be able to handle assembly, but then what would the point of reading about the hacker mindset be?
Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend. Helps you understand how to set boundaries at work and general relationships, helped me as someone who’s a pretty big people pleaser.
Read it years ago when I was religious and it does have a Christian tone but it’s not overt or excessive. Looks like they re-released it recently.
Looking this up like right now!
“Discover What You’re Best At” by Linda Gail.
I found this book when I was out of work due to an injury. You can do the self tests in half a day, and the jobs they suggest go from entry level to college graduate. When you can get up on a rainy Monday morning and feel okay about going to work you’ve solved most of life’s problems.
At what are you best? I usually got stuff like lumberjack or garbage man on aptitude tests at school.
There are six self tests in the book. Things like math, mechanical problems, leadership, etc.
A product demonstrator, a nurse, and a hair stylist all need good dexterity and good people skills. Three totally different jobs with similar skill sets.
That sounds neat, thanks for telling us about it.
Good luck
The 7 habits of highly effective people. Stephen R. Covey
I like so much this book, it teaches so many things, one of those that I preach more is the 4 quadrant matrix for effective time management: An enlightening tool for people that live their lives solving crisis after crisis.
Arch Linux Installation Guide = How to take back control over our own computing, plus some extra tech skills, useful irrespective of your occupation or hobbies. I would suggest doing it a second device, like when already buying a new computer, so your stuff stays safe on the old one.
Lmao it’s not Lemmy without Linux
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Not just any Linux. Arch too!
Capital by Marx - class consciousness and economic literacy
The phantom tollbooth, basic empathy.
The ENIAC, one of the original ‘programmable’ general purpose digital computers.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/ENIAC
https://books.google.com/books/about/ENIAC_the_Triumphs_and_Tragedies_of_the.html?id=l2nGQgAACAAJ
This was a significant era of computing history, and in the modern digital era, I think everyone should at least get a sense of the early days of digital technology.
“A Conversation with God” I’m not religious but this definitely shifted how I view the world and our place in the universe
Any recipie book for homebrewing.
It just gives you ideas what to do, you have to figure out/iron out the techniques. They are for each settup different so with any book/manual you have to tinker with it yourself.
Please give a specific recommendation. It helps with the choice paralysis lol
Sorry the only one that I used is in Czech. If you want to look it up:
“Pivařka” ISBN 978-80-7565-108-2
It has more general information (little bit useless for homebrewing) but half of it are recipes.
Brown, Derren - Tricks Of The Mind. The chapter about memory.
We are only being taught in schools, but never taught how to learn.
