It’s been trending this way for years, but seeing it graphed out like this is shocking.

What do you think are the effects of this drastic change?

  • iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works
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    18 days ago

    “online” doesn’t necessarily mean dedicated dating/match making apps.

    The Internet connects people in a way that nothing ever has before. You use the Internet to seek out interests of yours, as will other people. So like minded people tend to meet even incidentally.

    I met my partner online, but it was on a game, not a dating service. Neither of us were really looking for love. We became friends, then started dating, and now married for years.

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      18 days ago

      …Even now, though, if we have an argument I shout, “noob! EZ! Uninstall!” and she waits around awkwardly for some moderator to penalize me.

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        18 days ago

        “Do you take this woman, to have and to hold, to draw aggro and tank for, in MSQ and DLC, so long as the NA servers stay up?”

        “Roger that”

        “And do you take this man, to have and to hold, to heal and to buff, in grinding and in raids, so long as the NA servers stay up?”

        “I do”

        chockobo music starts

    • Monument@lemmy.sdf.org
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      18 days ago

      I once moved across the country for a woman I (re)met during a random Words with Friends match. Took us a dozen games before I realized I’d originally met her through LiveJournal, about a decade earlier.

      Many years later, my wife moved across the country to be with me, after we met on Reddit. (Clearly the previously mentioned woman was better as a friend.)

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        17 days ago

        Met on Elder Scrolls Online, graduated to hanging out outside of the game, picked up some other co op games together, fell in love!