I was referring more to how there’s an exception to every rule in, for example, biology (and other things in nature).

You mentioned autism, which by itself is an exception to the rule of how we think humans beings “should” be and act. And autistic people have long been tried to be forcefully put into the societally constructed boxes we made for ourselves, instead of accepting that some people are different and that it’s ok.

Or how left handed people exist. Or how intersex is a thing. Or the myriad of medical conditions which, while not harmful, make people different, like situs inversus.

And that’s just for humans. In nature you got everything from viruses which is debatable whether it can even be categorized as life, to platypuses, to fungi that have tens of thousands of different sexes. And this list is near endless.