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The original was posted on /r/japanlife by /u/yokoyokogirl on 2023-10-03 15:00:46.

Caught husband with his work mistress just last month after taking a family trip the day before.

Plenty of evidence to sue both parties and I already have served notice of my intent to do so to both parties. (Backstory: If I tell their company about this, both of them will get fired) Of course, I won’t say anything but I did tell his mom simply because she is/has been a lot of help to us over the years. She was livid to find this out and also knows he possibly jeopardized his job with this older (married) woman. She begged me to make sure the kids never know about this, as they will likely hate him. His dad said he “must be a sex addict to do this to his family after our family trip” and told him he’s not welcome in their home anymore. He also said I should “probably get tested since he seems to want to put his stuff in anything”.

So guess what? Now that his family has turned on him, the husband is suddenly he’s saying he wants counseling and he will pay whatever I ask to stay together. He said he doesn’t talk to her anymore even tho they work at the same place and he has no plans to transfer. I really don’t trust anything he says, even down to what he ate for lunch or what the weather is. It’s all lies, but I’m wondering if anyone else has been in a similar situation and their spouse changed after counseling or what not.

Or is that the same as hoping for world peace?