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The original was posted on /r/japanlife by /u/NoEstablishment1235 on 2023-10-04 14:38:45.

Been married for 7 years, have 2 kids. Wife started a new job in April and has been acting odd for months, had my suspicions that she was having an affair due to a strange message she sent me by mistake a month ago and the increased number of late shifts she has been doing recently. She had a reasonable explanation for all of it so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Today I was using her PC which had LINE installed and managed to see her messages. Looks like she’s been cheating with this guy (who is also married with kids) for months. I’m absolutely devastated and have no idea what to do. She has no idea that I know. My biggest worry is her demanding a divorce if I confront her with it and losing access to my kids. I could also lose my job as well if I got a divorce as she was the one that got it for me. This is a throwaway account as I don’t want people I know finding out. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.