i just broke up with my bf. i can let friendships and love blossom, but i won’t go around asking people even if i get the urge too. i’ll give it time.

  • thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    8 months ago

    In my decades of relationships and trauma from them. Honestly the best way If capable of course, to find someone is to not look for a relationship and just find good connection of people and eventually something will happen with someone. The whole dating industry is all about fast dating and forced dating for cash. So it’s ok to not actively always be looking as it’s often times imo best mentality for it.