I really love being bi and believe I fall under the umbrella but I don’t feel attracted to the same sex enough to be bi.

I still find the same sex hot but it feels like I don’t feel that enough to be bisexual. This just feels strange

  • PostmodernPythia@beehaw.org
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    1 year ago

    I feel like some not feeling “bi enough,” in my experience, comes from internalized queerphobia. It’s “Well, I’m close enough to ‘normal,’ in my external behavior, why can’t I just go all the way?It would make things easier for everyone,” etc. If you experience homosexual and heterosexual attraction, you can count as bi as much as anyone else who does. Even if you’re 95/5 and they’re 50/50. Even if, like me, you were straight (not in the closet, sexuality can be fluid over the life course) until your early 30s, if you have experienced homosexual and heterosexual attraction, Welcome to Bi Club. We’re all comrades here.