More people want to join the trend of going cold tofu with Facebook, but are unsure of the best way to go about it.

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    2 months ago

    Immediate family got Signal installed on their phones, if anyone outside of that wants to talk to me, they can send me a text.

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      2 months ago

      if anyone outside of that wants to talk to me, they can send me a text.

      An encrypted RCS text at that as well. Google better be forced to open the RCS protocol to Linux Phones.

  • Hanrahan@slrpnk.net
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    2 months ago

    what, is this serious?

    1. log out of FB and don’t log back in
    2. doom scroll Lemmy
    3. order pizza

    jokes aside, 1.

    i haven’t used it for so long I forget about it.

  • Sunshine@piefed.caOP
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    2 months ago

    I think the multi-prong approach is by switching to Mastodon, Signal groups and Friendica.

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    2 months ago

    It helps to have a real life that you’re living. Being preoccupied with what’s in front of you keeps you from being occupied with how it could be captured and preserved in a post.

    Then you gotta avoid the 2 big excuses:

    “I use marketplace”

    “This is the only way to keep up with grandma”

    Those are false, just always remember that those are lies to enable us to get back to the peepshow. Anything else that was on facebook you already knew how to do and were doing it before you started your account

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      2 months ago

      Gotta call and message grandma with Signal

      Then use Flohmarket to buy/sell second hand stuff

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        2 months ago

        Exactly. Nobody actually buys from facebook, it’s just there to sprinkle some local crackheads and their wares into your feed for entertainment

  • Jessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 months ago

    Life was fine before social media. I have a fb account only for marketplace. I’ve unfollowed everyone and everything that shows up in my feed, except for flatland bmx videos. This way, when I do go on fb to look for oddities, I am greeted by sweet tricks.

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    2 months ago

    I’ve not used it for years but have whatsapp and insta, like anything else just leave and the world will not implode.

    Little point in fleeing Facebook if one likes it and they are just gonna feed Meta via whatsapp or insta anyway imo.

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        2 months ago

        Nah, for keeping in contact with family, friends, work and more meta makes things easy and seems the default.

        Have considered getting Facebook back after a decade or so away as it still seems rather useful for interacting with local businesses & certain groups…and Whatsapp seems far more invasive anyway.

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    2 months ago

    I eventually got disgusted enough with the way the site works that I stopped going. Told anyone who messaged me there to contact me elsewhere (even instagram sucks less). It’s like quitting smoking: the way to do it is to not smoke a cigarette.

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    2 months ago

    It did help that I was annoyed with my family at the time, then I just deleted my account and requested a GDPR delete to make sure there was no coming back.

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    1 month ago

    I just stopped using it one day in 2017 and haven’t looked back. I keep up with friends and family directly through messages, so I’m not missing out on anything.

    The only super annoying thing are businesses that insist on making their “website” their facebook page.

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    2 months ago

    Just leave.

    But I’m not sure you can ever fully cut Facebook out of your life. I signed up under a fake name and fake email in 2010 or so, used it for exactly one hour and never touched it again, and somehow I still get updates about people I know delivered to my inbox despite having changed my actual email several times since.

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    2 months ago

    Back up any data from your profile you want to keep, then delete every single post, message, photo, video, etc. that you posted there, then leave. I don’t trust Fuckerburg to not rifle through the data of accounts that have been deleted or closed.