Full title: “Shut the fk up!” Democrat storms out of event as voters voice criticism of anti-trans bill. “You can’t fking talk to me that way!” Rep. Eugene Vindman said before walking out without taking more questions.

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    Vindman is currently favored to beat Republican opponent Doug Ollivant in the November election, according to the Advocate. But one trans woman told the outlet that she’s frustrated that Vindman ran unopposed in the Democratic primary. She said the choice between the congressman and Ollivant feels like a choice between “callous dismissal and active hatred,” but that she felt she would “have to” vote for Vindman anyway.

    That’s what you end up with when you let these fuckers slide in the primary.

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      This is why the rhetoric around “The dems are unsalvageable. Elections will never save us” is so destructive. It discourages people from participating in the democratic processes in the first place.

      The very people who need to participate in it more in order for the system to work in our favor are the ones who are most likely to be dissuaded by this line of thinking. Of course democracy won’t work for us if we refuse to vote. That’s kind of how it works.

      If a progressive had run in that district’s primary, they might have won the nomination and this seat’s general election could be a completely different story. Of course that would also require progressive voters to show up and vote in the primaries.

      So the “don’t bother voting” crowd does twofold harm: they discourage progressives from running, and they discourage progressives from voting.

      We made our bed and now we have to sleep in it

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    I CANT believe SO MANY Democrats want Change from THIS!

    -Media Labeling Socialists as an UPRISING!

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    Runs for politics, which serves the people.

    People call him out.

    Tells people to shut the fuck up.

    Yeah – this guy needs to go.

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    The problem with having a big tent party to unite everyone that isn’t actively a fascist is you get people who are still white-wing as fuck I suppose… disgusting anti-human representative, and somehow there’s still worse, what is wrong with our world

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      And note these fucks talk and talk all the time about wanting a “big tent”, then that narrative crumbles into fucking dust the moment leftist voters and DSA candidates enter the chat.

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          They’re invited in. They’re just expected to sit quietly in the corner while the old timers repeat the mistakes of the last old timers.

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            The “old-timers” are sucking up a lot of air on the media, but they lost control of the DNC in 2024.

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          It’s a big tent. It encompasses a diversity of opinions, and subjugates them all to the official party line.

          Honestly, in a way, parties that reject outsider opinions are more honest. They might be vile and despicable human beings with god-awful opinions and perspectives. But at least they’re not pretending to welcome disagreement only to stifle dissent when it counts; their party is full of true believers who aren’t being coerced into toeing the party line.

          Actually, on second thought, maybe they are being coerced, but in an entirely different way…

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    The constituents can talk to their reps however they fucking want, that’s kind of enshrined in the constitution. The whole idea of “america is so great”, false though it was, was almost entirely based on the Bill of Rights in which the freedom to openly criticize one’s government is at the very top.

    If citizens can’t criticize their representatives, then they have no representation and we’re becoming a feudalist system with an untouchable aristocracy. That’s like centuries of regression.

    On the other hand, government officials should be held to a higher standard and need to maintain decorum in their own actions and words, so cussing out your constituents and then storming out is conduct unbecoming of the station and makes one unqualified to hold office.

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    How about we try to organize a nationwide protest where we just act like our fucking representatives for a day or two. Get asked a question? Go the fuck home and get paid apparently. Disappear for weeks? Fuck it I’m working from home now apparently.

    I got written up and sent home once at work because my pants weren’t black enough and I was making 15¢ above minimum wage. Why does more money and power come with less responsibility?

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      Or, you could become an active participant in the process.

      Look up Jerry Falwell and the Moral Majority.

      Falwell was a TV preacher who figured out how to take over the GOP at the grass roots.

      If the local GOP had an average attendance of twenty people at the monthly meeting, Falwell’s folks would show up with fifty. It started out with them grabbing jobs like sheriff and county clerk, but it was a short step to Congressmembers and governors.

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        That would require 50+ people cooperate, which the left famously is extremely bad at.

        Hierarchical leadership styles might have a tendency to lean towards authoritarianism, but we can’t deny that they’re effective at organizing large numbers or people efficiently.

        The left tends to be allergic to even the idea of leadership, so it’s harder for someone to say “I need fifty people at this meeting, and a hundred people at that one” because most people would just be like “You can’t tell me what to do.”

        I know there’s a tendency to think of leadership as a cushy do-nothing position of privilege, and bad leadership can certainly be like that, but examples of good leadership exist even though they’re more rare in our current system.

        Coordinating and delegating large groups of people is a job in its own right, even if they’re not the ones swinging hammers and doing gruntwork. There needs to be a mind behind it all who sees the big picture and can follow a plan, receive reports and feedback and adjust as necessary. Leftists reallllly don’t like that idea. They’d be more likely to say “Oh yeah, why don’t you show up to all those meetings yourself?”, ignoring the fact that one person can’t be in multiple places at once, let alone participate as dozens of people at even one meeting.

        If the left wants to take over the Democratic party the way maga took over the GOP, we need to learn how to do central coordination in order to organize organize ourselves for large-scale and efficient mobilization.

        And we need to unify beyond everyone’s individual pet issues and stop competing for relevance as if anyone’s oppression is more important than anyone else’s. We’re all oppressed, it doesn’t matter who’s the most oppressed. We need to work together to fix this system, not fight each other over who gets the gold medal in the oppression olympics.

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    Both of the Vindmans are wolves-in-sheep’s clothing and working for Israel. Vote them out.

  • This title is outright lying by the way it mixes another person’s quote with the main subject. Ground News only found right-leaning sources.

    This guy serves a swing district. His constituents may equally favor and reject his position on those issues. He does have to listen to all constituents, but it’s also fair that loss of decorum is going to shut down a discussion, if nothing else then because at that point it’s likely to not be a useful discussion. And if roles were reversed–imagine, for example, Sarah McBride saying what Eugene said but to a conservative constituent telling her the same thing–I think that situation would make it easier to see this a different way, and many might be saying “good for her” for walking away from it.

    I don’t know, I wasn’t there. I’m just saying this smells to me like a smear piece in a swing district, and it started with unethical journalism by structuring the title the way it did.

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      loss of decorum is going to shut down a discussion

      Can someone explain why this isn’t “civility politics” and simply used as a tool to further marginalize persons that already don’t have enough representation?

      When a person advocates for making it harder for other persons to participate in public life, it should be acceptable to have an emotional response, including but not limited to ad hominem attacks, while also building the reasonable/logical/rational/non-fallacious arguments against them.

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    This guy should have been primaried. Now, without congressional recall elections, we have to live with him for another two years.

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    Th headline is misleading.

    Another committee member told him he needed “to shut up and listen.” Vindman argued that he’d chosen to continue the conversation, but was being “attacked.” The same committee member reportedly told Vindman to “shut the f**k up.”

    “You can’t f**king talk to me that way,” Vindman reportedly responded, before walking away without taking any further questions.

    No one has to take that sort of treatment.

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      People all over the world are treated much worse than that daily, but sure, clutch your pearls because someone said “shut the fuck up” 🙄

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        And they don’t have to. If I was talked to that way I’d get angry and most people would.

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        Are you… clutching your pearls because he responded by saying “you can’t fucking talk to me that way”?

        Weird to accuse someone of pearl clutching when all they really said was that his response was justified…

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      I’d argue his job is to listen to his constituents, and since through his actions or inactions this person is coming to harm, that he is not listening. Perhaps he should “Shut the fuck up and listen.” The problem is that while she’s talking, he’s not listening. He’s just waiting for her to stop talking so he can tell her that she’s wrong. This has been a big problem with the establishment of Democrats for a very long time.

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    “Wow! Those democrats are worse than donald trump and the republicans!”. There, is that what we were going for here?