Do we just live and suffer and die?

    • PrincessLeiasCat@sh.itjust.works
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      8 months ago

      I truly appreciate your story because I’ve been there. Had my best friend for 13 years - the cat who would be waiting by the door when I got home from work, who would cry out in the house if she didn’t know what room I was in. The one who was always on my lap and who slept right next to me snuggled up against me in bed at night. She was the perfect cat and friend, and even though it’s been 8 years, I still think about her on an almost daily basis.

      I love how you gave your friend such a loving and caring place to rest. I’m sending you random internet stranger hugs and good vibes. <3

        • Swarfega@lemm.ee
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          8 months ago

          What’s wrong about crying about a cat? It’s like losing a family member after all.

          I lost my cat two years ago and miss her dearly. We vowed no more pets but as time went on we missed having a pet. So we got another cat.

          It’s hard when the end feels so cruel but having years of joy outweighs the weeks of sadness.

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      8 months ago

      I’m sorry for your loss, bud. I lost my dog last week in a similar way. I took her in for a routine tooth cleaning, they found a mass in her abdomen, and her body wasn’t strong enough to recover from the anesthesia 😞.

      She was so young, and as you point out, so incontrovertibly innocent. It’s been a difficult time this week accepting that she’s suddenly gone from my and my partner’s life.

      A friend shared this with me and it’s been “living rent free” as they say.

      Time is an illusion that makes things make sense,

      So we’re always living in the present tense.

      It seems so unforgiving when a good thing ends,

      But you and I will always be back then.

      Here’s to animal friends making us our most human selves.