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    7 months ago

    I’m not a narcissist they have litterally told me i am an asshole because i don’t talk to everyone all the time.

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      7 months ago

      I’ve been told by coworkers “I thought you were an asshole because you didn’t talk to me for like a week when I first started” several times.

      I have nothing to say, so I say nothing. When I do have something to say, I will say it. It doesn’t have to be more complicated than that. I just don’t feel the desire to fill silence with idle chat when I’m at work.

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          Yes, because “completely ignoring when someone is speaking to you as if they aren’t there” is what is meant instead of “I don’t go out of my way to initiate conversation”

          If that makes me a narcissist by your definition so be it.

          Maybe think for half a second, asshole.