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Depending on how they said it, this could be a yellow or green flag lol
Yep, that is absolutely something that I would do
Not even maliciously, it would just be hilarious!
This is something my wife and I have done.
“just wanted to see how long it took you” said with a laugh about something unimportant.
If it’s important, there’s a time crunch, or it’s needed right now then it’s another story, but we can read each other’s mood fairly well and know when this joke isn’t appropriate.
That said, if I was wandering around a block for 10 minutes trying to find the place for the first date, I probably wouldn’t find it funny, and would just feel like I’m being made fun of.
It would really depend on how the conversations have gone up to that point.
It’s probably not that deep fam 😂
everybody works at different “depths” don’t forget
Yo if your gf doesn’t get up to mischief and japes then i dunno what to tell you but that sounds kinda boring ngl
Hey, at least they’re not going to waste time and money on a second date. Might be the start of a fun friendship, though, if they enjoy friends who bust their chops.
This seems very much like just a fun jab that immediately breaks the ice, if someone doesn’t go for a second date because of this alone I think they are too easily offended.
This could be a yellow flag for a lot of people and hey, good for them if they don’t wanna deal with this and potentially worsening behaviour in the future, have nothing to do with easily offended. Have to see how the actual date goes tho.
Could’ve just been a joke, but that’s also a yellow flag for some
And honesty.
My wife has done this to me. 20+ years together.
I wouldn’t call that a date.
I would. It’s funny and not their responsibility. But they were honest. And I appreciate people who are both sincere but also curious.
What, meeting in a cafe?
