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Backing all these comments that say it’s about communication. If I found out my partner has been selling nudes, hiding it from me, and also hiding the money? An unforgivable betrayal of my trust and our relationship. If he came to me beforehand and we discussed it and the money went towards our mutual goals, it would at least be something I’d consider.
The whole point is not hiding it from your partner. Discuss things before you do them.
AnneBoleynTudorto
Greentext@sh.itjust.works•Anon tries to cheer up his friend but then realizes something
77·2 年前Anyone who says about another person, “I hope s/he gets abused so that I’m proven correct,” is a gigantic piece of shit who will never find real love. And doesn’t deserve to, until they get huge amounts of therapy and improve as a human.
AnneBoleynTudorto
News@lemmy.world•15,000 Scientists Warn Society Could 'Collapse' This Century In Dire Climate Report
51·2 年前And remember, don’t look up
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Risa•Captain, remember your breathing exercises. They're not worth it.English
4·2 年前Exploitation begins at home!!
I can’t even tell which side this post is supposed to be on. But I’m very happy with my blanket policy of “Don’t fucking bomb children.”
AnneBoleynTudorto
Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•[CW: Slurs] Any attempt to connect with my dad immediately turns into "Woke liberals are ruining the world."English
1·2 年前I believe you. But my family is just as bad.
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ArtOfTheStory@lemmyhub.com•Kvothe from Kingkiller Chronicles (Artist unknown)English
1·2 年前It’s never coming.
Conservative rural Christianity. It’s fine to be gay as long as no one ever knows about it.
Well the man is the head of the house, you see. So what he says goes. Even if what he says involves lifetime psychological damage!
To be somewhat fair to my mother, most of the worst stuff he ever said to me was when she wasn’t around. To this day I don’t know if she knew a lot of it. At the time he assured me that was he said came from both of them, and since I’d never seen her stand up to him for us, I had no reason to doubt it.
I was given a very specific (but non-inclusive) list of people I was not allowed to bring home. That included any and all women, naturally, but also included any and all men of any colour darker than germanic-european-white, and indeed any men of a religion other than young-earth-creationists.
Breaking any of these rules while still living in the house would have meant my expulsion from the house. I’d like to say my mom wouldn’t have allowed him to kick me out but I really don’t know.
Exactly why I never came out to my parents. I think they knew, since my stepfather would semi regularly tell me that if I came out as gay he would kick me out of the house.
Jokes on him, he’s dead now and I’m still bisexual.
AnneBoleynTudorto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's the best thing about your job and what's the worst thing?
4·2 年前Best: unlimited free coffee, lots of free cake and sandwiches etc
Worst: 5am wake-ups several days a week. Customers suck. The public are idiotic assholes.
AnneBoleynTudorto
News@lemmy.world•Ex-Americans are suing America to get back some of the money they paid to renounce their citizenship
11·2 年前But here’s the fun part, you still have to file a tax return every year! Even if you’re well under the threshold! And trying to find someone living abroad who is versed in American expatriate tax law is expensive! And I can’t afford it!!
I am hiding from the IRS and have been for 16+ years.
AnneBoleynTudorto
News@lemmy.world•Ex-Americans are suing America to get back some of the money they paid to renounce their citizenship
13·2 年前If you think it’s that easy to renounce American citizenship, you have no idea what you’re talking about.
I fully support taxing the rich. I am very explicitly NOT rich. And I cannot come close to being able to afford to renounce my American citizenship.
AnneBoleynTudorto
Ask Reddit...@lemmit.online•What’s a strict dating preference you have that you can’t overlook?
3·2 年前Absolutely must be left-wing. Support of gay rights, trans rights, feminism, socially progressive, etc.
No drug use. No involvement with people who are active drug users. Former use, fine. Current, no.
Absolutely must do their fair share of housework. I am not the maid.
Exactly!!
My boyfriend has moderate to severe ADHD and is unmedicated. I completely understand and agree with that image.



My brother is a flat earther, so I never rule anything out anymore.