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  • Same. I have broad as fuck shoulders and wide chest. It sounds like you are listening to transphobes with there “archaeologists will know by you bones” bullshit. (And it is of course bullshit) Humans, regardless of sex and gender, come in all shapes and sizes. That’s doesn’t mean we can’t find happiness and people that love us for who we are. Everyone, cis and trans, has things about their body they wish was different. Even the trans person who was able to use puberty blockers. You need to find the strength and self love to accept those parts of you and focus on that parts you do love about yourself. It’s not easy, and it takes time, but you will never find happiness with yourself if you only focus on what you don’t like.


  • HRT can doing amazing things even if you have gone through the puberty without blockers. Unfortunately, generics play a large part in that too, so it’s luck based. But don’t give up hope just because you didn’t receive blockers.

    I didn’t realize I was trans until I was 22, started hormones just before my 23rd birthday. Now 5 years later, I seem to pass and looking in the mirror doesn’t hurt much at all anymore. There is hope, even if you didn’t start when you where a teenager.










  • Ashenlux@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoSteam Hardware@sopuli.xyzSteam Controller
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    My partner has an original steam controller. The touch pads are honestly pretty nice for computer navigation when you’re laying on the couch. It is a horrible option for gaming though. This new one has joysticks though, so this really might be the steam controller that works well for both computer navigation and gaming.





  • Technically, I do sometime read the AI overview when I search something. But I don’t use any other AIs. I just don’t have a need to. Normal chatbots always felt so hollow to me, like I couldn’t sense any humanity in them or something. Making them smarter doesn’t look like it has helped. The screen shots I see make AI look incredibly sycophantic and like it’s trying too hard to sound human. It comes off even more off putting to me. I do sometimes come up with idea that could make use of image generation, but I have made the decision that if I want an image, I can either pay someone to do it, or do it myself. Most of the time it leads to me not doing anything with the idea. But that’s fine. But I do still sometimes work up the drive to actually try to draw though.


  • Ashenlux@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoComic Strips@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    3 months ago

    Naw, I’m not dating a Republican. I’m coming to accept that to get out of this mess we will have to forgive and join together with Republicans and former MAGA people. That’s doesn’t mean I will ever date one. Republicans short sited, greedy, and vindictive ways are what lead us here. The beliefs and opinions shared by Republicans is opposed to many of the values I hold highest in my life. In the bright side, I doubt any Republicans would want to date me either.



  • Ashenlux@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoAnimemes@ani.socialRelatable.
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    For those interested, “One Pace” is a fan edit that removes a lot of recap and shit. I just got my GF caught up not too long ago using one pace and I think it is the way to go if you insist on watching it and not reading it. One pace isn’t caught up, but it will get you through a lot of it.