MaybeALittleBitWeird

31M, Bi, kinky, goofy, and a little queer. I’m just here to look at naked people being sexy and having fun - please don’t message me unless you’d like to have a legitimate conversation.

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Joined 1 year ago
Cake day: July 3rd, 2023
  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comtoSissy@lemmynsfw.com•How do you find boys?English
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    10 days ago

    People go to these meetings just to play pool, and they act like the sex drive has been sucked out of them by some kind of alien parasite.

    The point of a munch is to be a completely non-sexually, non-kink, social event. They’re also used by more underground groups to vet members and this is a fairly normal experience.

    Tops act like bottoms, bottoms act like tops, everyone either has kids or is some kind of little.

    If you’re looking for a high protocol master/slave situation, you’re not going to find it organically in a local scene. It honestly sounds a bit more like your attitude here might be stopping you from possibly getting to know people because this comes off as very aloof and judgemental. Not everyone fits nearly into a box, as I’m sure you can attest to.

    I get you on the 🐻 though, they aren’t for me either. I just don’t like hairy men mostly 🤷

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comtoSissy@lemmynsfw.com•How do you find boys?English
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    11 days ago

    This is a common problem for anyone living the rural small town life. Just finding kink friendly partners is going to be difficult without adding on another minority preference (not being cishet). The two combined is going to leave you with a pretty limited dating pool. Hell, depending on how small town we’re talking here normal cishet dating can be difficult. I’m in a medium sized city and even the kink scene is still pretty small and mostly couples looking for thirds…

    The reality is that if you’re probably going to have to come to terms with the fact that if you want these needs met you’re going to have to travel, either temporarily or on a more permanent basis. If moving isn’t an option maybe make yourself open to LDR relationships with occasional travel for meetups. Fet and Reddit used to be decent for finding things like these even if they kind of suck nowadays.

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comtogonewild@lemmynsfw.com•i need a good little paypig who’s going to let me drain their wallet 💖 [OC] [F]English
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    14 days ago

    There are a number of reasons. First and foremost though I just want to address a common misconception that Findom(me) =/= Prodom(me):

    • Prodomme is what you would consider a stereotypical dungeon dominatrix. You are paying a professional for use of their time, space, and knowledge for bdsm services.

    • Findom is short for Financial Domination. It involves a relationship where a submissive(almost exclusively male) gives money to a dominant(almost exclusively female) and generally involves elements of humiliation of some form for the act. The expectation is generally that you will be treated as a human ATM with a complete disregard for anything else.

    It’s frowned upon because it’s extremely exploitative and violates a lot of mutual respect tenets of BDSM play. Typically it’s used as an easy guise which is low hanging fruit for lazy sex workers and scammers trying to make a quick buck and can easily get out of hand quickly for a site that leaves it unchecked. It exists in the same vein as Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby play, but without even pretending to have a relationship beyond financial gain.