FailedAtAdulting [she/her, comrade/them]

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Cake day: May 1st, 2024

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  • I don’t have any advice or help for you because I’m in a somewhat similar situation as you. I was also a good student (not quite straight A, but close enough) and thought my education would also give me some form of agency over my life. That, of course, turned out to be completely untrue due to various factors outside my control. I also thought moving out of my small town would give me a fresh start and allow me to finally live a normal life… which never really happened either.

    All I can say is I’m sorry this is happening to you, comrade. If you need to talk or vent, my DMs are open meow-hug





















  • Normally I love 27°C weather, but when it’s humid it often feels hotter and the air feels muggy, which absolutely sucks. Not sure if this helps or if you’ll have access to it, but I grew up in the tropics and my parents used to make chrysanthemum tea and barley water to cool us down and keep us hydrated. Another thing I got from my parents was not to drink water that’s too hot or too cold to avoid your body going into shock. Not sure how scientific that is but it’s “age-old wisdom” I guess…

    But other than that, cool showers twice a day (or three times a day, if it’s particularly muggy), and maybe carrying around a portable mini fan if you’re moving around a lot.