So are we just casually dropping slurs now?
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's the longest, hardest fantasy rpg out there?English
1·2 months agoHappy to help!
Rappe@sopuli.xyzto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's the longest, hardest fantasy rpg out there?English
11·2 months agoPathfinder: Wrath of the Righteous takes hundreds, for some thousands of hours to complete due to the complexity and sheer scope of it.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Meta shuts down global accounts linked to abortion advice and queer contentEnglish
7·2 months agoThank you, much appreciated!
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Technology@lemmy.world•Meta shuts down global accounts linked to abortion advice and queer contentEnglish
15·2 months agoCould someone post the transcript here? I refuse to adhere to “accept cookies or subscribe” model. Much appreciated.
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Lovecraft Mythos - Cosmic Horror@lemmy.world•Howard P. Lovecraft collection - A collection of correspondence to and from HPL. Also contained are many of his original manuscripts. (Brown University)English
3·2 months agoThat’s really cool. I wish there was a transcription, I can’t read American cursive, and even less the 100 year old version of it.
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Mildly Interesting@lemmy.world•Tram stop on my commute has projected warning signs to grab phone zombies' attentionEnglish
8·3 months agoOh that’s Espoo near Sello? I go there often and have noticed the same thing. Tampere also has started projecting red lights as a line on the ground on the crosswalks near tram stops. I think one reason is the snow covering painted signs on the ground as well; the struggle every winter to figure out where there bike lanes are is real :/
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?English
1·3 months agoPlenty of those around. I hope they find an outlet for that frustration, do some introspection and become the best version of themselves, whatever that looks like. I’m just not interested in being a part of that process.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?English
1·3 months agoYes.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?English
7·3 months agoMaking a lot of outrageous assumptions here, enough to make me lean towards you either being a bot, or just incredibly ignorant. Either way, I’ll have a more pleasant life without you, hopefully you can find some happiness in your life as well. :)
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?English
81·3 months agoWell, that is certainly a takeaway from this. Maybe not the intended or correct one, but certainly a takeaway.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?English
171·3 months agoThanks, it was about 20 years ago, and exactly as you said, good riddance.
Funnily enough, my grandfather who fought in the winter war supported me. Quote: “War is not a place for anyone. It is horrifying.”
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?English
171·3 months agoFinland. My own father came very close to disowning me for not going to the army. He did call me colourful slurs for years, before I cut ties.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?English
191·3 months agoWe have it, it sucks. Especially in it’s current form, it’s discriminatory and archaic. You basically have 4 choices: go to the army, do civil service (pesudo-slave labour essentially), go to jail (usually house arrest) or try to get out of it by faking a mental illness.
I did civil service, and nobody told me of the stigma that follows not going to the army; especially conservative people will treat you like a second class citizen, a coward, lazy, hippie or a traitor. It’s even worse if you decide to protest and go to jail instead of serving. On top of that, there’s not a lot of the service places nowadays, it cannot be a for profit company, and has to be “useful to the community” sort of thing. Most people go to schools, unemployment centers or old folk’s homes. The work I did for 364 days was in a school, and had nothing to do with my studies or interests, nor did it teach me any skills. I was mostly bored out of my mind.
Being stuck in the army/service also delays your studies, and can make it harder for some people to continue studying afterwards due to the forced delay in between.
If you add in how it’s incredibly discriminatory, that only males have to do it, it’s voluntary for females, and certain religious groups get a free pass, but I can’t get a free pass because of my principals or morals. I believe some promising athletes can get a free pass as well, but don’t quote me on that.
Basically, at least in it’s current state, it’s bad. With some fundamental changes and prioritizing the wishes/principals of the individual, I wouldn’t have a problem with it. I’m not a fan of my individual choice being ignored with a threat of jailtime. An opt-out model I would be fine with, but I guess that kind of doesn’t fit with your questions, as it’s not exactly mandatory at that point.
There’s a lot more to be said, but that covers most of my main opinions briefly.
Rappe@sopuli.xyzto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What careers did the shittiest people you know personally get into?English
11·4 months agoSales, finance, middle management and one “prompt engineer”.
Yes, barely. Kind of odd on FF on mobile, have to long press it, and it shows like the first 100 characters or so. But I did read the screenshot by zooming, so we cool.
Thank you for taking the time to write an alt text! Wife is an accessibility consultant/expert/researcher, who works mainly with vision impaired people, and she has made me realize how crucial it is. :)
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ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Me after downing my meds with a large energy drink and two cups of coffeeEnglish
1·4 months agoWelcome to the club of late diagnosis, got mine + meds in January this year at 34 years old, even though my doctor’s notes from my childhood all very clearly pointed to ADHD but my dad doesn’t believe in psychology (and didn’t want to accept that his kid is “insane” as he put it :D)
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ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Me after downing my meds with a large energy drink and two cups of coffeeEnglish
6·4 months agoSure, but this observation assumes I am a smart man. I might not be.










Exactly, I had to work through a bunch of stuff, and took 6 years in uni for BA, goal is 3 years. Then I left and worked on myself again, and went back to school for a different field at 26y, graduated at 29. Wife got her BA at 27, masters at 32 and is now working on doctorate.
There is no one fits all path, guide or schedule for life. Do your best, fuck anyone who would sneer at your huge achievement just because it took a little more time.