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  • ‘Mustermann’ is more like an artificial placeholder name, that gets used on facsimilies of passports and drivers licenses used as example illustrations.

    “Muster” in that context also means something that is only for demonstration purposes, not the real deal. That word is also printed across prints of Euro-bills when they are depicted somewhere in order to avoid charges for producing counterfeit money.

    Afaik there are actual people with that last name, but that’s pretty rare.

    I was thinking Mustermann is more like John Doe in that regard, but John Doe is also used for a hypothetical regular, average person and we have “Otto Normalverbraucher” for that use-case. (“Normalverbraucher” literally means ‘normal consumer’, no real person has a name like that)

    OP’s question is aimed more at a last name, that is very common and stereotypical, almost boring. While the close translation of Smith Schmitt/Schmidt/Schmid also fulfills that criteria the even more regular one would be Müller and Mayer (or one of its spelling varieties)

    Those three names are so common that “Müller-Mayer-Schmidt” has become another phrase used to refer to the average citizen archetype.





  • That’s a pretty screwed up way to view society. ‘Debutante balls’, at the least the ones I know, are usual events where teenagers dance with partners of the SAME age.

    This is more an elitist networking event with the chance to get your offspring to hook up with someone of ‘suitable’ social status.

    Historically speaking, the age gaps might have been a lot bigger, but I guess societal norms and laws were also different then.

    Of you course you can’t avoid older people on the sidelines ogling, but presenting that as the main purpose of the event is a pretty big stretch imho.

    And regarding grooming: that’s not the typical definition, either. Usually grooming is a tactic to make the abuse victim accepting of their abuse. Waiting for them to reach legal age before ‘cashing in’ on that effort is not a usual part of it.

    I agree it might be a hypothetical scenario though, that could be played out to do some really fucked up manipulation long game, while staying within a legal framework. But then again, that doesn’t strictly require the predator and victim to be related and if you want to have a way to abolish that, it shouldn’t need to rely on that either.













  • That sounds pretty good.

    I’m looking at Leap, specifically since I don’t want to have to update constantly, and don’t mind a bit older software for those machines. I just want something that’s easy to maintain and somewhat ready to use, even if I haven’t touched it for a few months, and Arch just tends to break if you don’t update regularly.

    The only thing I need up-to-date is a browser and Discord, which I’ll probably install via its own flatpak anyways.

    It feels pretty German out of the box

    I am German myself, and I’m not sure how I have to take this. 😅 Out of my mouth this could be both a compliment and an insult, depending on context.