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Cake day: October 12th, 2023

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  • Talk to him straight without being cruel. Below is an example and not a script.

    “Hey, I really appreciate you and our friendship. G/f and I are happy to be your friend. We also happy together. Please be respectful of that. I really hope we can continue growing our friendship.”

    He’ll be embarrassed. You can choose the level of connection and space to hold after that. Immediate disconnection will feel awkward for him. But so will holding space. Only in holding space can he even begin to remember that being friends with you is a safe place.

    Its not easy to reach out to a friend with low self esteem. But its something they crave for.