homhom9000 [she/her]

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Cake day: May 25th, 2022

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  • Honestly, even telling some people you’re queer would greatly impact the relationship dynamic. If you feel like you want to let the people in your life know, go for it, you can’t control or predict how people will react so that shouldn’t be a factor if it’s stopping you from living in your truth.

    For myself, I’ve been working on gaining understanding before passing judgements so unless it’s a distant acquaintance, there’s nothing my friends can tell me that would make me want to abandon them. Now, that doesn’t mean I won’t grill them to death if it was super egregious.












    1. Yes, mostly THC dominant products

    2. No, at least not that I know of. I tend to mask and haven’t had a sore throat in 4 years unless it was due to mouth breathing and it resolved same day. Haven’t had a headache that wasn’t a migraine or dehydration or lasted multiple days. Haven’t had a persistent cough for longer than a few days- i think this comes from smoking though. Had a fever in 2020(last one) and waa tested at the time and came back negative but who knows if it could have been false negative.

    Side note, I read one study mid 2020 that said weed could prevent infection so I’ve smoked everytime I got home from crowded events. I also still masked and showered and changed clothes too. I think it’s a placebo but still no known infection







  • ‘Oshi no ko’ and ‘how do we relationship’ have been keeping me going. Highly recommend ‘how do we relationship’ at least, it’s a queer drama but the way the mangaka writes characters is so beautiful. They’re imperfect, multidimensional, and easy to relate to and sympathize with.

    I half thought about doing contract work or taking multiple lower paying roles, but that’s so risky and it feels sleey taking multiple jobs when others don’t have one. I’ll take the link, it’s good to keep options open since at my current place the ‘if’ I starting to feel like ‘when’.