Here are my recommendations:
Bad North: Real time island defense with procedural islands and character permadeath.
Inscryption: Roguelite deck builder (but it’s more than that, hard to describe without spoilers. just play it)
I realize these might not be the exact type of roguelike you’re looking for, but I highly recommend them.
Gotta say, this type of post makes me feel like absolute shit.
I see someone overcoming an issue I have, then it’s “my girlfriend helped me…” or “couldn’t have done it without my wife” …
Guess I’m just fucked.