I’m here to explore gender, looking for affirmative community to be honest with.

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Cake day: January 18th, 2025

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  • Take radiology: there is some evidence that AI can sometimes identify solid-mass tumors that some radiologists miss. Look, I’ve got cancer. Thankfully, it’s very treatable, but I’ve got an interest in radiology being as reliable and accurate as possible.

    Let’s say my hospital bought some AI radiology tools and told its radiologists: “Hey folks, here’s the deal. Today, you’re processing about 100 X-rays per day. From now on, we’re going to get an instantaneous second opinion from the AI, and if the AI thinks you’ve missed a tumor, we want you to go back and have another look, even if that means you’re only processing 98 X-rays per day. That’s fine, we just care about finding all those tumors.”

    If that’s what they said, I’d be delighted. But no one is investing hundreds of billions in AI companies because they think AI will make radiology more expensive, not even if that also makes radiology more accurate. The market’s bet on AI is that an AI salesman will visit the CEO of Kaiser and make this pitch: “Look, you fire nine out of 10 of your radiologists, saving $20m a year. You give us $10m a year, and you net $10m a year, and the remaining radiologists’ job will be to oversee the diagnoses the AI makes at superhuman speed – and somehow remain vigilant as they do so, despite the fact that the AI is usually right, except when it’s catastrophically wrong.

    “And if the AI misses a tumor, this will be the human radiologist’s fault, because they are the ‘human in the loop’. It’s their signature on the diagnosis.”



  • I can’t say how hrt will help you or not. I’m thinking it might help me one day but…

    But I wanted to send you a hug, perhaps that sounds meaningless, sent in digital bytes, but I know it’s helped me to hear that at times. You sound so down on yourself, are you sure you aren’t depressed (I’m not a Dr)? Do you have access to a counsellor/therapist?

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, the mirror doesn’t know shit! I tell myself this, anyway!





  • Yes, this. I didn’t really suffer dysphoria until realising I was trans. What I noticed was that I didn’t fit socially with men, and because I belonged to that group, I felt alienated from women, esp as I for older (I’m 50), but historically women have always been my close friends. But since realising that some people are trans and that seems to include me, then I’ve realised how transition steps made me feel good. But then also came the Oh shit, I don’t look like a woman, this is awful.

    I’m still struggling to accept it.



  • It does hurt less after the first/second times. At first I did my feet, lower legs. Then stopped. Knees are particularly bad. Thighs hurt too and I didn’t get to the top of them yet! I really just wanted smooth legs if seen under a skirt.

    I put a podcast on, recommend: philosophy tube (which is by an incredible trans woman) - gives you loads to think about to distract from the pain.

    Never try epilating your hands would be my advice. Felt like fire ants. (I imagine)