
Does anyone else get paralyzed on fixing small things because they’re terrified of it becoming a larger thing?
This never occurred to me… I just thought I need to fix this. Shit. Debuff unlocked.
I guess “hire someone” is always an option, but it’s a difficult task sometimes, especially finding someone reliable.
Actually, this is way more annoying to me. I’ve been ripped off/scammed too many times. I hate blindly trusting other people to not screw me over. Just this week my AC mysteriously broke after a recent-ish visit from some HVAC “professional”. I had to call another company cuz this is way more complicated than I can handle (for now…). After talking with the 2nd guy, it seems like the 1st guy didn’t do the maintenance work properly… I tried researching and going with a reputable company, but damn it still feels like a shot in the dark. Completely random chance they may completely break my shit.
Also, for some work, I’ve noticed I do it either at the same standard or better than some of these “professionals”. So. Meh.
Yes, it may take me several weeks to do it, but at least I know I tried to do it right, instead of rushing off to the next job.

















We’re a huge country I guess. I’ve experienced pretty much the exact opposite as you.
Most people around me have the waiter take their half-eaten plate away. Apparently, food waste is considered polite or something around me. If you actually try to finish your plate, you get made fun of. (I’ve been made fun of.) I guess it makes you look poor or desperate or starving or something?
The dinner plates my family and my wife’s family (and extended family) have for dinner are quite large and they usually get filled up. Usually meat is the biggest portion of that plate, followed by carbs, and then veggies are the smallest (if present at all). My wife’s family in particular always, always, always, has ice cream or cake or cookies after dinner.
My wife and I use smaller dinner plates, and again, surprise, get made fun of because we’re eating such “tiny” (normal) portions.