reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net to ShowerThoughts@sh.itjust.works · 13 hours agoMost people aren't attracted to an entire gender so why do we frame attraction in those terms so much?message-squaremessage-square28fedilinkarrow-up129arrow-down19
arrow-up120arrow-down1message-squareMost people aren't attracted to an entire gender so why do we frame attraction in those terms so much?reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net to ShowerThoughts@sh.itjust.works · 13 hours agomessage-square28fedilink
minus-squarezqps@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down7·10 hours agoThat doesn’t resolve the question though. What does it mean to be “fundamentally attracted to women” if you’re not actually attracted to most women?
minus-squarezoostation@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up9·9 hours agoI’m attracted to femininity, first and foremost. Femininity is a requirement, and it’s not flexible. But then there are other more flexible preferences about specific appearance or personality details I might like in a woman.
That doesn’t resolve the question though. What does it mean to be “fundamentally attracted to women” if you’re not actually attracted to most women?
I’m attracted to femininity, first and foremost. Femininity is a requirement, and it’s not flexible. But then there are other more flexible preferences about specific appearance or personality details I might like in a woman.