It’s called an infatuation or limerence. It has nothing to do with patriarchy or feminism lol.
I really thought it would have something to do with r**e culture or something. Like, is there something in our education that pushes us to appropriate women with our throughts and desires without any form of consent? I mean, of course one doesn’t have to literally say yes to inhabit your inland empire, but maybe she should at least be part of your life, not just a one-time meeting, so that at least she knows she’s got a place in your brain even if she never knows exactly which, see what I mean?
And yeah know women can be obsessive creeps too but it’s like everything else, not because they’re women they’re always at the vanguard of the struggle against patriarchy
Aww beautiful story