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I mean, you gotta find decent people first. If I knew how to get decent people reliably I’d have a lot less trouble.
ohh, I see
Forgive me my misunderstanding of you earlier, this makes sense now.
I think those are valid questions to ask, honestly. I wanna live in a world where asking someone for gender related help and stuff is totally normal. The mega is absolutely geared for that. I don’t think what you describe would be burdensome to anyone, and imo it’s on them to say so if it is. I think the whole “being a burden” framing is wrong and a bad meme though.
You should absolutely always post, though. I encourage people to post or ask things all the time, whenever I can, both broadly as a megathread thing and specifically to encourage people to infodump and such. I love when people post, and aside from just being a place for me to yap I view the trans mega as somewhat of a support structure. I think “I’m queer and I need you to stop not texting me” slaps, to be honest. You deserve to give yourself that.