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As a reminder, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It’s for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.
Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.
Try your best, especially if your gf is asking. My mom had a hard time accepting I was a woman after quite a few years as a dude, but she got there. It’s not misgendering if your gf has explicitly asked you to.