• Atlas_@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    The final boss is the most closeted bigot you’ve ever met. They’ll grab some quotes from before they went to therapy for the show and use it as a vehicle for coming out. They will be both.

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    I haven’t really met like a hundred queers in my life but I have this one gay friend that been my bestie for a solid 12 years so far and never heard him or any of our other queer friends tell a joke it’s always the straights who tell the gayest and yet funniest jokes and they always land home, that’s just my experience so far I wish to meet someone that would change my mind tho

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      I haven’t had the same experience with jokes (my experience aligns more with the meme) but I always hear the most homoerotic comments from the straights.

      I’m closeted to one group of friends, and i openly say gay shit because it’s funny and I can get away with it and have only been questioned once. But good lord can some of the straight people in that group effortlessly say gayer shit than me.

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        Lol as a straight guy, that tracks. For me, I think it’s that I’m comfortable with myself and who I am on the spectrum of sexuality, and don’t really care if people judge me as gay. You’re damn right if there’s something funny to be said that happens to be gay as fuck, I’m just gonna go ahead and say it.

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    Honesty, I think it would be fairly easy to figure out.

    If it is derogatory - homophobe.

    If it points out an idiosyncracy, and makes fun of it - queer, or at least not homophobe.

    In my experience, bgoted people make jokes that insult and/or demean those people they hate. It is not done primarily to be funny, but to hurt and demean. Making it funny just helps spread it around.

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      whoa, no, this is not at all my experience. practically the opposite.

      very often queer people make self-deprecating jokes about their communities that are on their face insulting.

      this sounds like a good idea to me because I don’t think anybody would get it.

      it would be like that TV show or whatever who tells the truth, to tell the truth, that nobody ever wins because nobody ever knows when somebody else is lying.

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        Huh, you know maybe knowing the origin of the joke affects how I determine whether it’s derogatory or not?

        I did not think about that, but looking back, seems like an easy pitfall.

        Good point.

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      Maybe my friends are just weird but I heard my Queer friends tell to eachother such queer-phobic stuff,as joke of course but with a serious voice so a third person could believe that they are serious, that I was extremely shocked the first few times we hung out 😂😂😂 Now I laugh my ass off but I would never dare to do it myself even tho I’m 100% sure they would be down with it. 🏳️‍🌈

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      20 hours ago

      It’s easy if you ignore the closeted folks who are terrified of being found out and participate in the gay shaming.

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      19 hours ago

      I have no idea who that is, but I was thinking neopunk fm would also be a good choice to run this game show

      • Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        “Gay Agenda” maybe?

        IDK some people really do go about their lives hunting for anything with any relation to the thing (or group) they hate. They think about the thing (or group) they hate more than those that are the thing (or group) in question.