My sister always complains about not wanting unsolicited advice, but she’s the biggest offender when it comes to unsolicited advice.
She always copes out by saying “I just need to vent, I didn’t ask for advise!” And I’m like, "How weak are you that you cannot hear some words of advice and just say ‘thanks, I hadn’t thought about that’ and then just disregard the advice-- the exact same fucking way I respond when she gives me her unsolicited advice.
The biggest difference between my sister and I is that I go to therapy.
My sister always complains about not wanting unsolicited advice, but she’s the biggest offender when it comes to unsolicited advice.
She always copes out by saying “I just need to vent, I didn’t ask for advise!” And I’m like, "How weak are you that you cannot hear some words of advice and just say ‘thanks, I hadn’t thought about that’ and then just disregard the advice-- the exact same fucking way I respond when she gives me her unsolicited advice.
The biggest difference between my sister and I is that I go to therapy.