• @June@lemm.ee
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    I managed to break the curse and am far more successful than my parents. It happened through a lot of hard work, persistence, a lot of luck, a hefty gift from my ex’s rich aunt and uncle, and even more luck.

    Anyone can do it.

  • Queen HawlSera
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    5710 months ago

    Who do you think bought my car? My parents? Please.

    It was their parents

    • @Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      1010 months ago

      My grandparents have been bailing my parents out of financial trouble their entire lives. Me? I got some cash for a down payment on a house, and I presently make more than ny parents do combined

    • Two
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      410 months ago

      All FOUR grandparents, right?

      RIGHT?

  • Skoobie
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    5610 months ago

    Doing better than my boomer parents? Hahahahaha

    I’ll settle for just doing better than a majority of my millennial peers.

    • @InputZero@lemmy.ml
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      It’s fucking insane. With the exception of a few of my peers, we’re all highly skilled, some with over a decade of experience, some with two incomes, and there’s no way any of us can afford to buy a house in the area we work anymore. The only ones who did bought their houses right after school with help from their parents. Rent sure, own a home, not a chance here. So either rent forever, commute more, live with our parents, or find another job. It’s a rock and a hard place.

    • Parent [none/use name]
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      610 months ago

      Yes and no. Less lonely than living by yourself and you can cook in bulk, but also you get sick of your family after living with them for a while. Also if you’re cramming 3 generation into a 3 bedroom because of financial constraints that’s pretty rough.

    • FoolishFool [she/her]
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      Sure, but specifically in a culture where it’s overall disadvantagious to still live at home as a young adult: Not really, ya know?

      I love my parents, but I’ve been ready to live separately from them for a long time.

  • @RadButNotAChad@lemmy.world
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    1310 months ago

    Im doing better for only two reasons. One, I found out I’m pretty damn good at sales and make a pretty good living doing it.

    And two, I don’t have and don’t plan on having kids. Those things are expensive.

  • @rockerface@lemm.ee
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    I’m doing better than my parents but only because in post Soviet times my family was even poorer, so it’s sorta been gradually improving over the generations. I was able to get better education, better job than my parents ever had an actual opportunity to. But they did try very hard to set me and my sister up with that opportunity, so I’m grateful for that.

  • GaveUp [she/her]
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    A lot better but only because the communists took my mother’s family’s business and property mao-clap

  • @Cjwii@lemm.ee
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    610 months ago

    My mother in law lives with us because of her crushing medical debt. I could go and ask her what she thinks but I think I know the answer.

  • @Kecessa@sh.itjust.works
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    410 months ago

    I’m doing better because they had kids, they didn’t have a pension plan, they didn’t have all the safety nets we’ve got now (no parental leave at all compared to a full year now), they got out of school right when interest rates were extremely high and unemployment too, the list goes on and on…

  • pachrist
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    410 months ago

    This thread is getting a little humble brag bootstrappish. It’s probably better to ask this again in a month after the student loan payments really hit.