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Once again, Lemmy proving that tunnel vision and framing Every.Single.Issue through class struggle exclusively betrays a fundamental sense of empathy and understanding of any other topic whatsoever
I get it. You guys are experts on leninist theory. There are other issues happening concurrently. We can work to solve class inequality without dismissing the struggle of women or those faced by minorities. The two are not mutually exclusive.
Tin hat on: I am starting to think this dismissive strategy is intentional. There feels like an undercurrent of self sabotage intended to dilute the efforts of building a movement around class consciousness by deliberately undermining others struggles. The intended goal of this self sabotage is to never have to address concrete issues. It seems that as long as we remain in the realm of the abstract, we can keep the discourse aloof and disconnected from the real effects of what si happening through action. I can’t prove this of course. The more likely reality is Lemmy is overwhelmingly men, and men in tech. Their frame of reference is… Not the greatest when it comes gender issues
Tin hat contd: in other words, by keeping the discourse in the abstract birds eye view of theory and never addressing concrete issues (such as gender inequality), the conversation can self replicate endlessly without an exit path towards actionable items.
Tin hat off
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Even the fact that the only associate behind bars is a woman should tell you something
Exactly. She deserves jail but so do a lot of other people
Well the other one who was behind bars was a Jew who either committed suicide very suspiciously, after an attempted strangulation by a corrupt cop who was his cell mate on murder charges, or got suicided whenit was inconvenient for him to exist for the pedo in chief among many others. So of the two arrests both were the procurers and monsters (as well as the most disposable on a social level), but the clients conveniently never knew the guy and the files are lying.
Yeah, this isn’t so much about men/women, as it is about money. Like there was a story on here recently about the connection to Ariane Rothschild, and how she basically introduced him to all the power people / helped establish his honey trap – story claimed her name showed up like 12k times in the files, but little/nothing’s happened. Her name is basically verboten in all media… because she’s stupid rich. And Ghislaine is currently alive in a min security prison, with a dog – while Epstein was killed. So, like in terms of the ‘main people’ perpetrating the crime, the guy in the couple got killed, the woman got a dog.
At least the rich men are getting named and semi shamed, like Gates needing to eat crow for fuckin on the island and passing an STD to his then wife.
It’s not about men/women because women are helping men make victims of little girls and are getting awayt with it. Did I get that right?
Yes there’s a class element, they prey on girls without the material means to fight back - but that doesn’t negate the sexism, it just reinforces it
The image that was posted is literally arguing that “Women who have their photos leaked lose careers”, but “Powerful men who can be linked to epstein get to stay in power”, as the grounds for declaring “inequality! sexism!”.
I pointed out that in the Epstein case, looking at people who are named in the files (so same general control group), there are women like the Rothschild chick, who are getting off scott-free. I also pointed out that looking at two people who committed the same crimes (Ghislaine and Epstein were partners in all this afterall), the guy got killed, the woman got a dog, to highlight that the ‘inequality’ often favours women – particularly when they, too, have money. Really, Ariane Rothschild getting off scott free, just like every other Epstein named collaborator, is enough of a counter to the ‘attempted’ point from the image – as it shows that the getting off scott free isn’t necessarily happening because they are ‘men’, since ‘women’ too are without accountability.
I agree that inequalities exist, but I don’t agree that it’s as rampant as the left seems to think, nor do I think “ALL” inequalities boil down to gender shit. And I don’t agree that looking at the accountability for those named in the epstein files is a good place to try and highlight gender inequalities (the actual crimes committed were generally against women, but that’s not what the image is highlighting – and if we want to look at that sort of thing, through a gender lens, then it’d be fair to bring up the lopsided casualties in things like war and drafts, where men’s deaths far outnumber women, and basically no one in the epstein class/rich gives a shit. It’s sorta like politicians arguing “Those who suffer most are the wives and children left behind” when a guy gets killed in a war - as though the guy dying isn’t sorta a bad result from the POV of the individual, one that’s a bit worse than not having a husband/dad around.
Besides, if you want to talk about careers ruined by phone leaks/images on devices – there are plenty of men who’ve had careers ruined by a dick pick, or even just an accusation of sexually inappropriate behaviours - though these consequences generally fall on the poors/commoners. So even the “Women who have their photos leaked lose careers!” is sorta bullshit. Hell, Kim Kardashian is practically famous because her private shit got “leaked”. Name a dude who’s made a billion off of a leaked dick pick. Heck, even that Coldplay cheating scandal – the guy lost his job, the HR lady he was cheating with kept hers.
The guy who lost his job in the Coldplay cheating scandal was the CEO. He carried more blame for inappropriate behavior at work because he was in a position of higher power. Also the HR woman did lose that job.
I’m not sure it should be seen as a benefit for women to potentially have more fame because their nudes leaked and men enjoyed it. An outlier is not a rule made and most women would be horrified to have their sex tapes leaked as revenge porn.
No one is saying every single inequality boils down to “gender shit”.
That’s like saying slavery wasn’t about race but economics because you had black slave owners
Scoping and context matter – I’m not saying sexism doesn’t exist, nor am I saying that the crimes committed weren’t based on sexually predatory men exploiting vulnerable women. But the argument the image is making is just shit, and conflating different topics, botching the framing and diminishing the statements ability to persuade me as a reader/consumer.
Using your own response to highlight it: “slavery wasn’t about race but economics because you had black slave owners”.
You didn’t properly frame that as American slavery, you’re presuming the context is just known to your reader, and that they’ll inherently agree with your point as you view it as politically correct – you’re being intentionally lazy with your word choice, but that makes the statement easily challenged/ignored. It’s sorta like virtue signalling – you don’t need to “prove” something will benefit an individual, if you can convince them its for some nebulous greater good. To your lazily framed statement, one could ask: What about Rome? What about Korea, one of the areas with the longest history of slavery? How about the First Nation groups in the PNW, who prior to “colonization” ruining their culture, were known as prolific slave traders with about 25% of their band being slaves from other FN bands? “Slavery” itself isn’t about black and white, nor is it specifically about race. America’s racism, is America’s racism – slavery or no, as many non-whites have found out in the years since slavery was “abolished” in that country.
The image is leaning on virtue signalling, saying “sexism is bad”/“women are disadvantaged” to present a disjointed argument about gender inequality. The examples they provide are shit: in the two ‘things’ they put forward, having photos leaked online and being named in the Epstein files, if you look for cases with the two genders, there are differences but it’s not a solid ground to stake a position. There are both men and women in the Epstein files, as conspirators/contributors/victimizers, who are all getting off nearly scott free (gotta quantify that a bit, as it’s mostly US people getting off totally scott free, the US people in power specifically). And if you look at photo leaks/mis-sent photos, there’s lots of examples of men getting shafted, and there are examples of women turning huge profits off it/gaining careers from it.
Like if the base argument is “men got off scott free in epstein, women lose careers in photo leaks”. Then pointing out women got off scott free in the epstein files, and that men lose careers over photo leaks, you could accurately rebut that argument simply by saying “women got off scott free in epstein, men lose careers in photo leaks – they are equally avoiding accountability in the files, and both losing careers to photo leaks, so where’s the inequality?”.
The image isn’t arguing that “the epstein files was a giant multi-nation syndicate setup to exploit vulnerable women for the benefit of sexually predatory rich men, while also gaining blackmail material on those men”. It’s arguing “Men have no accountability from Epstein stuff, while women lose careers for a photo leak, therefore sexual inequality!”. It’s a shitty argument, even if you agree that sexual inequality exists.
I don’t think anyone is arguing gender inequality doesn’t exist. Also this is class/power issue not a gender issue.
It can be both. Both things can exist simultaneously. They are not mutually exclusive. I hope you understand that
How do you even separate gender issues from class and power issues?
You control for gender by class…? Are you OK?
Yeah the women in the epstein files are also getting away scott free. And maxwell absolutely is compared to the punishment she should be getting.
A whole sex trafficking ring of little girls and people are saying it’s not a gender issue. Lol okay
Who did that though
The person I responded to said:
Also this is class/power issue not a gender issue.
I don’t think anyone is arguing gender inequality doesn’t exist.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
There are comments in this comment section claiming that gender inequality doesn’t exist.
Were they deleted or something? I don’t see them.
Look at the endless comments claiming there isn’t a gender issue, its only a class issue.
Then there’s the few men who actually question if a woman has ever been negatively impacted by having her nudes leak.
It’s ignorance all the way down.
You’re making it sound like people are saying left and right that gender equality doesn’t exist, when literally no one here is saying that. The comments you’re referring to say the Epstein case isn’t a gender issue, which is very different from what you’re incorrectly perceiving
Consider that you’re coming into a discussion a few days late.
Also consider that there are there other commenters that agree with me.
There are absolutely gender issues tied up with the Epstein case and to pretend like there are none is laughable. There’s many things that can be true at once.
This was posted two days ago and I was in this conversation from the beginning. Still waiting for an example of someone saying that issues of gender equality don’t exist
People definitely do that. You just aren’t talking to the right people.
Was about to post exactly this and am glad this is on the top.
While there are gender disparity, Epstein isn’t really about gender it is about ruling class having separate justice system than rest of us.
There might be gender issues like less women being as rich and powerful, but that’s secondary.
Self reflection
The Metoo movement didn’t even scratch the surface. Every single grown women I have had the privilege to talk to has been sexually assaulted in their lifetime. My wife, my mother, and now my daughters.
The backlash from the Metoo movement has been insane. Cops, prosecutors, and judges have ensured that there will be no justice. The President is a damn child rapist for Christ’s sake. We are absolutely fucked when it comes to gender inequality.
Still waiting for the Equal Rights Amendment to be ratified.
Thanks for having women’s back ❤️
There are women in the Epstein files too, nothing happen to them either.
I mean maxwell is the only person associated with Epstein in jail right now…
FYI: Epstein was also in jail. Saying that only women were punished is not correct.
When did I say that?
They also had Epstein killed
Another Trump employee thrown under the bus. Convince me I’m wrong.
The Norwegian Crown Princess is in deep shit though.
Wait what, really? A quick search doesn’t return anything relevant. What did I miss?
The relationship of Crown Princess Mette-Marit of Norway with the American convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein has become a major scandal for the Norwegian royal family.[1][2][3] The pair were introduced in 2011 and maintained close contact until 2014. Media first reported on the relationship in 2019 in the context of the indictment against Epstein in 2019.[4] At the time Mette-Marit minimized the contact, claimed a lack of knowledge of his crimes, and claimed to have broken off contact in 2013, a claim later disproven.[5]
In 2026, the newly released Epstein files showed extensive contact between Mette-Marit and Epstein over several years, and that she is mentioned over a thousand times in the released files.[6][2] The Epstein files were released days before the trial of Mette-Marit’s son Marius Borg Høiby on charges of rape.[7] The files revealed that Mette-Marit admitted to Epstein that she had googled him and that the results “didn’t look good” already in 2011, the year they first met.[8]
In exchanges from 2012 and 2013, Mette-Marit repeatedly discussed how she was “dying of boredom” over royal duties,[9] discussed adultery, the work of Vladimir Nabokov, and pictures of naked women she wanted to give to her then 15-year-old son Marius Borg Høiby as a wallpaper; they further discussed Epstein’s “wife hunting” and dating of multiple young women, she suggested Epstein connect with Scandinavian women, asked him about “island life” and whether he enjoyed “sweetness”, and they exchanged deeply intimate and personal messages about love and longing.[10][11][12][13] She also wrote emotional letters to Epstein about an unnamed man, writing about how she met him and how “he made me feel like the most beautiful woman on earth.”[11] Mette-Marit and Epstein met several times, and she stayed in Epstein’s later-demolished mansion in Palm Beach as late as 2013.[14]
A scandal isn’t jail time though. Formerly known as prince andrew lost a couple houses and a title, but he’s still free too.
I was simply answering the question about her ties to Epstein.
Damn, that’s crazy. This shit runs deep.
Kinda ironic incels online were arguing it was the other way around too >:(
I hate to defend incels on any point…,. you know what, as much as I feel compelled to play devil’s advocate, this time I’m not gonna.
There’s proof Matt Gaetz paid a teenager for sex, and literally nothing was done.
I used to write cheeky notes in the memos of checks to friends and family (eg “for: eye hole widening” or some shit like that) until I learned the bank and your accountant read that shit and if it looked or smelled funny they were professionally and ethically obligated to report it.
Now I make sure it’s embarrassing just not reportable. (eg “for: butthole removal, 2nd attempt”)
Lots of girls make career exactly by selling nudes lol. Pretty funny
Are you saying that you don’t understand the concept of “consent”, or that you find it ironic that while erotica/porn exists, some women’s lives can be ruined by their nudes being leaked?
Are you pretending or do you really think that some mens lives can not be ruined by nude leaks? There is a long list of women whos nudes got leaked without consent and nothing happened to them.
This is a class problem not a sex problem
Why do you think they are mutually exclusive? I hate Lemmy sometimes. So incredibly myopic and laser focused one particular perspective.
They aren’t. The Epstein class didn’t exclusively harm women. But nobody likes to mention the male victims it seems.
You didn’t disprove anything though. The perpetrators were predominantly male. Before you start screeching Gisslaine stop and reflect
M.H. Allegation: A 2021 lawsuit filed in Queens, New York, claimed that the “M.H.” individual was under 17 and working as a high school intern when Epstein “induced” him into sexual acts, causing lasting mental anguish.
Whistleblower Reports: Some individuals have come forward identifying as male survivors associated with Epstein’s network, including connections to other high-profile figures and trafficking rings.
Context of Abuse: While the majority of widely reported victims were young females, testimonies and legal filings suggest Epstein targeted young, vulnerable individuals regardless of gender to facilitate his trafficking ring.
I don’t contest any of this. It doesn’t negate the main point I was making. You’re really invested in digging down
What’s your point?
… says the one screeching…
It’s a bit of both, but the gender problem is at least partially derived from the fact that the larger portion of assholes at the top are men.
Getting rid of them or clipping their wings would likely be overall better for women. Replacing them with a billionaire-class of women would not.
Sex doesn’t matter. It is sad that people are blind fighting each other and getting fooled by assholes
I don’t understand people who dismiss an entire gender’s lived experience. How can you be so patronizing
Op just baiting to get upvotes. Sadly there are too many comments agreeing with her. Fortunately top comments are the correct ones
I think the men on this platform struggle with any topic relating to the other gender. Case in point: needing to frame every problem exclusively through the lens of class struggle, even if it means demeaning the strugge of women or minorities. It’s weird
That’s right it goes in the “class issue” hole lol.
I get why people see it as a sex issue since most of the rich people in positions of power that seemingly don’t face consequences are men.
most of the rich people in positions of power that seemingly don’t face consequences are men.
which is just pure coincidence, right? in a world where genders are split 50:50, it is just the men who have skills necessary to reach these positions. no gender bias here at all…
A lot of them come from old wealth.
oh. well that explains it, because i am sure they don’t have daughters in the old wealth, so the gender issue is off the table. hurrah!
Two things can be true at the same time… but yeah, stay distracted from the class issue it’s ONLY a gender thing for sure 100% no way it’s anything else make sure it’s only about men and gender and definitely NOT class. Lol
Gender and class warfare are intrinsically tied together.
Yes. I guess I should’ve made that clear on my first comment. I was more commenting on how people seem to see that men are in these positions, so therefore it’s a gendered issue, and then they stop cuz they think they already understand the nature of the problem but there’s actually more going on than what might seem obvious on the surface.
I’m just sick of people getting distracted from class issues.
I’m just sick of people getting distracted from class issues.
And I’m sick of gender issues being dismissed because it’s not as “important” as class issues when they’re very much connected.
Not being dismissed but you clearly want to take it that way.
Two things can be true at the same time
Exactly. So time for you and the other clowns who came with false dichotomy of “it is not gender issue, it is a class one” to shut up.
You are literally arguing against yourself and you don’t even realize it. It would be funny if it wasn’t sad.
You guys are sooo dumb I cant.
there are no bad woman and all man are bad i guess
i don’t see many rich/ceo women raping 13 year old boys.
I read through other comments and I didn’t realize the sentiment some people had in this thread.
It absolutely is a gender issue and it’s wild to try and say that it’s only a class one.
Stop trying to make everything a gender issue and misreading everything. Clearly it’s both, but trying to pretend it’s not a class issue is just a complete misdiagnosis.
Plans to remake the square hole video but each shape is a civil struggle painted to make the people fight among themselves
Exactly. The fappening did not end any careers of celebrities
Plenty of women have lost their jobs/careers due to their nudes being leaked.
Por Que no los dos!?
You don’t think Epstein’s homeys had any sex problem?
/s
I think they had a whole fucking lot of sex problems.
This one is an issue of class, not gender.
Not entirely? Like class is important but the fact is that women get punished more often for having their sex lives leaked than predatory men do.
You mean kim?
Mmm, there are still gender stratifications within class, as well as class stratifications within gender. The existence of the Epstein class is a class issue; the misogyny of that class is a gender issue; the structural prevention of women to enter that class is both a class issue and a gender issue. And I’m not even getting into race. Like, Oprah dropping nudes is going to be taken differently than Kendal Kardashian, but both are still billionaires, and both would face more blowback than Epstein’s friends within the same eschelon of the owning class.
Yeah, agree. Im just talking about the issue as it applies to meme. There absolutely is room for both things
Ghislaine is sitting in prison, if a nice cushy prison.
Epstein didn’t kill himself.
Gender and class issues are intertwined.
Sure but class inequality is what exacerbates gender inequality. Under capitalism anyone who is working class is forced to sell their labor to survive. Women are inherently disadvantaged here because their labor is required for social reproduction. Even assuming an equal distribution of housework and raising kids women have to do the unpaid work of pregnancy, childbirth, nursing, etc. Capitalists will therefore discount the value of a women’s labor regardless of her individual capabilities or productive output. As a result women are often forced to depend on the men in their lives for financial stability.
Conservatives are hell bent on normalizing this unnatural inequality between the sexes because doing so protects the underlying class inequality between owners and workers. This is what helps to create a sexist culture that even wealthy women have to endure. However, a woman who can live off of the growth of her investments is not facing the full weight of gender inequality that a working class woman must contend with. She does not have to deal with the threat of homelessness, hunger, and poverty that keeps many working class women dependent on men. Her financial stability is already assured because of her class position and the exploitation of the working class. That gives her far more freedoms than even most working class men.
The obvious solution to the problem is to upend capitalism which is what reinforces class. That creates the possibility of actually valuing reproductive labor and giving universal financial independence to all women. If you just try to address gender inequality alone without upending capitalism you won’t be able to succeed. Even if somehow you did, the vast majority of inequality would remain because most inequality can be explained by class alone. So while its true that gender and class issues are interrelated, abolishing class creates the conditions necessary to abolish gender inequality.
If you just try to address gender inequality alone without upending capitalism you won’t be able to succeed.
This but in reverse! If you just try to crush capitalism without eradicating gender inequality you will probably fail. If the working class isn’t even united and equal between its genders how could you muster the strength to abolish the upper class?
There’s a difference between rejecting sexism within a movement and trying to abolish gender inequality. I agree that the former is important for building solidarity. However the latter is likely impossible under capitalism.
Idk sort of agree, systemically.
If you are of high enough class, gender aint a problem.
Either way, its the class that I have a problem with regardless whether one gender or another.
I promise I wont discriminate here, believe me.
Gender is still a problem as you move up in class. A rich woman will have more protections than a poor woman, but not as much protection as a rich man.
Depends who’s richer
Take a wild fucking guess what gender the majority of the upper class is.
You can be pedantic all you want, but gender and class are not separate issues.
Okay Cesar Chavez
Just stopping by to drop off some ad hominem?
Probably referencing Chavez’ tendency to rape and sexually assault even his allies in the fight for class solidarity.
Yeah, maybe I misunderstood the reference. I guess there’s a bit of a joke in there? It’s not really where my thinking is at for the discussion, but probably there is another conversation the have there fo sure.
Ignoring gender inequality in favor of focusing on class solidarity even though they are inextricably tied. Chavez did it to the point of raping many women and girls.
Horrible.
Would it not be reasonable to think he ignored gender equality because of his values towards women?
But you’re right, they are tied together, as are all the other cultural class divisions rooted back to the core issue of economic class. That is the problem to solve, not to the exclusion of others, but because the other problems also must be solved.
If you listen to the victims they say they didn’t want to speak out and undermine the movement. So at the very least the victims were encouraged to ignore gender issues and soley focus on class issues. Something to consider. I could not care less what the pedophile valued.
I don’t think you know what that word means
in adressing the implication it’s appropriate.
Oh well as long as it’s appropriate
The only person serving time for a global conspiracy to rape children is a woman.
She’s a terrible woman who deserves it, but it’s still telling.
TBH, there was another guy but he is either dead or disappeared now.
But the factor of whether people get tried for their crimes is much more about wealth and connection than gender IMO. Even in jail she’s given preferential treatment, and I’m sure there are other women who have been involved with Epstein’s Island of evil in additional to the rich men.
There is no connection to gender, only wealth and networking
…I’m pretty sure alot of the victims became perpetrators by helping Epstein recruit new victims. If you look into their testimony, they conveniently don’t provide evidence about acts that occured after their 18th birthdays.
you mean maxwell in probably a 5 star hotel of a prison?
And she’s allowed to leave that prison. Doesn’t sound like a prison huh?
Yup, post is 100% correct, gender inequality is all around us. It’s even in the thread with us right now.
There are high society women involved with Epstein too and none of them have been held accountable. In fact the only woman to receive a punishment just got moved to a min security prison and was given a puppy. Stop using heinous shit to push your agenda
Im not sure this is the double standard you think it is. Women who are in the epstein files also seem to be getting off pretty easily.
Not as easily as they would with fresh slave children to rape, but easily.
I find that, just as some people don’t think trans men exist, some people don’t think woman can be rapists or paedophiles.
Same people who think black people are mostly the source of crimes.
I dont think the men in the files are getting it any worse. I think our culture just reveres the rape of children, no matter whos doing it.
Yeah it has always been the billionaires vs the rest of us
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